We all know that those facing a debt-crisis are almost faceless and voiceless and why?
- Because they don’t want anyone to know they are facing this problem.
- Due to the emotions of personal shame, embarrassment, humiliation and degradation.
- People don’t like to be judged and this is often the stigma they steer away from, all the time, without exception!
- Delusional pretentious perception that ‘All Is Well’, is a comfort-factor for the facade.
- There are not many people who will be empathetic, sympathetic to anyone facing this problem, simply because they don’t wish to disturb their own comfort zones, rightly so, where they will rather opt to listen a few times but not get involved. This does not help the person facing the problem.
- When we face a debt problem, everyone around us disappears, especially those good friends, they are nowhere to be found, they don’t take our calls, return calls or messages and disappear into oblivion. We only see them again once they know our situation is under control, correct? There are but half a hand of our sincere friends who will stand with us, I know, I have been there and grateful for those precious friends for supporting me.
- This is a road to be travelled like a ‘loner’ whether you accept this right now or not, it’s a hard cold fact, so you should be prepared and take the bull by the horns yourself.
- It’s hard to take the 1st step which is taking ownership and responsibility by admitting that you have a problem, it’s the same for anyone addicted to anything, yours was just over-spending, but it can be corrected if you are willing to give it a try!
So what is this Debt Mastermind and how can it serve you?
You and so many other hundreds if not thousands like you made a mistake, but you can correct it right now, so what’s the worth in beating yourself up about it and not progressing, when you are wasting energy, your health is suffering, so is your job, family life and everything that affects you as a human being?
There are people just like you who are dreaming of the day that someone will:
- Give them a listening ear.
- Understand where they are coming from and why they are facing a debt-crisis.
- Support them, just by listening and tendering their experienced advice.
- Just be a phone call or cup of coffee away to release the tension and resistence.
- Teach them or together learn new methods to be on a new path of debt recovery.
- Accept them for who they really are and form real true relationships of substance and meaning with them.
- Not be judgemental and continue criticizing them for this problem they find themselves in, because they are in the same problem or they experienced the problem and started progressing.
- Encourage them to take the path, stay on it and finish the journey.
There are so many powerful nuggets when you get involved in a Debt Mastermind, because you will meet people who are in the same situation, truly understand your problem and be there all the way for you, just like you can reciprocate and be there for them too. This is a form of finding one’s true worth, being one’s authentic self with ‘like-minds’ who share the same goals, objectives and dreams and when you can ignite this calibre of friendship and relationship, then there is no stopping you to fully recovering from your Debt-Crisis.
It also means that individuals, families and other business individuals will meet the same type people with whom they can regularly engage socially and intellectually and who knows what can culminate out of those newly formed relationships?
Why is it that when we face troubled times that we insist on focusing on the bad or negative outcome when our only job is to focusing on recreating a new life, new situation and try to get the most positive situations out of this? It does not have to be all bad, only we are responsible for calling more of the negative into our lives in this state of mind, when actually all you need to do is change the way you think, speak and act and then you will learn how to change your own world!
Register today for the 1st Debt Mastermind to be convened by me in Dubai. Once there are 100 delegates, I will confirm the details and reconfirm your attendance.
I want to make it worth your while to connect with as many individuals and from thereon, we will meet regularly.
Thank you, take action right now and I look forward to meeting you!
Warmest Regards
Theda
